Hi, I haven't posted in a very long time. I am engaged and we used to have the most amazing sex life. She's super sexy, and was as horny as me. She would suck me off every date, every makeout session ended in her giving me a blowjob and me fingering her. I wouldn't even ask her to go down, she just would and she would swallow every drop.

I would send her porn during the day and shed soak her panties at work. We would do all kinds of freaky stuff together.

Then, slowly....she stopped. Stopped giving blow jobs, stopped playing with my ass, stopped being adventurous.

Then, she got pregnant and had a baby, and then everything stopped. She barely acts like she wants to be touched, let alone have sex. Shes tired, I get it. I'm tired too...but I still like sex. I still jack off. I still am freaky. I know babies changes a woman's hormones...but.

There is nothing I can think of that has made her like this. I'm not lazy, I own my own business, we aren't under any financial stress really...I wasn't fat but I still worked out and lost almost 30 lbs. I thought maybe that was the issue, but no it wasnt. It seems like all women do this once they get to a certain point.

Men dont. Men like sex...even when they are tired, even when they are sad. They just enjoy it. Its like salt on food, it makes even the most bitter of circumstances endurable.

Is there any hope? Can a woman's sex drive ever come back?

Did I mention we've been together 8 years? It's not like we are just a fling.

I don't know what to say Mine has had spurts here and there but maybe the situation you are describing is one reason we are all here on this site

Yea I suppose youre right about that.

I've been married since 1983 and it was amazing! Then first child in 1989, it started slowing down. Second child 1993 and it slowed to once a month, maybe. Now, it just does not happen! She still says she loves me etc, but no physical contact. She still looks good and has kept her figure, but has turned religious! I want it more than ever, so stroke one out every chance I get. Even picturing my own wife! I guess that is why I spend a lot of time online, admiring the female of the species!

In general, sex is what the female uses to bait the hook of holy matrimony. Once she lands that big lunker, he goes in the live well until it's time for skinning.

My wife has lost interest and I haven't fucked her in maybe 10 years. That is a big part of the reason that have becum a cocksucker. Oh yea, the other reason is that I just LOVE sucking cock.

In s word no

Exact reason I stay single. I cannot even count the number of married pussy I have fucked. Just fingered one with her ring while I ate her yesterday,

Agreed. When they shut it off, they throw away the switch because they no intention of turning back on with us. They would for someone new, of course. Why? Because they're women.

So its a ticking time bomb then. Anyone new, they will run it until their tank is empty and move on to another one who then refills the tank.

I have been married for 21 years and I can tell you after the first child it slowed down and after the second it almost stopped. She rarely sucks me and when she does its only for a few minutes and its horrible. She wont take my cum in her mouth either. This is why men cheat and come to this site. My wife's sex life might be dead but mine isn't.

yes,im afraid thats life.you meet,get married,buy a house,have children and by your 40s sex is sunday mornings or on holiday.thats why there are so many members here.

I must be one of the lucky guys, I started going with the wife in the late 50's when we were 17, I popped her cherry when we were 18, we married when we're were 21 (she had a very strict farher who would not let her get married before she was 21), we had our children when we were 28 and 30, sex was still very good, we were 35, married 15 years when we started swinging (her first ever other cock) and M F M threesomes, she sure opened my eyes as to what a horny hot wife she could be.
She was a player with others untill we were 73, 7 years ago when we had our last M F M threesom with a 53 year old guy we met in a chat room, after that she said enough was enough and she stopped playing with others, and I thought at the time that I was hard done by lol.
We are both 80 now, married 59 years and still very much in love, our sex has quietened down now but still not bad for a couple of 80 year olds I think.
PS she was and still is a Catholic, she never touches alcohol, everything she has done she has done stone cold sober "out of pure lust I kid her"

married 23 years before we where married we had sex 2-3 times a week she wore sexy underwear every time we had sex even had sex outdoors then after we where married it was once a week then after our first and only child it was once a month sexy underwear occasionally but no guarantee of sex
lights off when having sex and no outdoor sex and then if she catches me having a Wank she is pissed.