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cloverfeathercake Novice Jackinchatter

2 posts since 2021-10-10
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Hi,
I have been married for 6 months now and we have sex on regular basis but I still like to wank one out from time to time. Is that a normal thing to do? Does anyone do that as well?
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cloverfeathercake Novice Jackinchatter

2 posts since 2021-10-10
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Oh, and did I mention that I hide from my wife, dunno if I should be ashamed of her or just tell her?
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dkslutlover Amateur Jackinchatter

490 posts since 2014-09-12
53 year old heterosexual male from Denmark
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Hello,

I think masturbation during marriage is perfectly normal. You may have another kind of sex, but masturbation is kind of less stressful and solely centered on your own needs. In some situations, people see masturbation during marriage as a kind of devaluation of the partner, almost infidelity. But I would rather see it as 2 kinds of sexual activity, that supplement each other well. Most important is to be honest and open to your partner about it, telling her, that she is also ok to masturbate. On her own or together with you. Good luck, My Friend.
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PinkNix Amateur Jackinchatter

169 posts since 2021-09-18
37 year old bisexual female from UK / NL
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We have been together years and still masturbate alone and together, its perfectly normal.

Does she masturbate ?
go to my pofile to know more
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ShortFuse Professional Jackinchatter

1248 posts since 2019-11-03
52 year old bisexual male from Nashville, TN
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Masturbated in front of my wife on our second date. Never stopped.
Small dick chronic masturbator
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Incubus1966 Amateur Jackinchatter

102 posts since 2019-11-22
72 year old heterosexual male from Pennsylvania
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It's perfectly normal. I was married twice and never stopped
masturbating, even when I was getting plenty of great sex.
In fact, thinking about the great sex afterwards is what kept
me jerking off! stroke
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Derfgarr Novice Jackinchatter

10 posts since 2021-10-28
57 year old bisexual male from UK
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cloverfeathercake said:
Oh, and did I mention that I hide from my wife, dunno if I should be ashamed of her or just tell her?
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If your sex life is good maybe she'd enjoy talking about it and hopefully joining in.
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ShortFuse said:
Masturbated in front of my wife on our second date. Never stopped.


It must be pretty sore by now. That's a long time.
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jim1954 Amateur Jackinchatter

271 posts since 2018-01-02
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I love masturbating and my wife enjoys watching me and joining in. It is a regular part of our sex life.
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I have been married 40 years and I have masturbated through out all that time. I feel masturbation is way different than sex with a partner. It a solitary pleasure that's just for you. Not saying it shouldn't be or can't be shared but it is a me time thing as far as I'm concerned. I never told my wife but i was caught once and she was pretty angry. She took it to mean that she wasn't enough for me. I tried to tell her it's not the same kind of pleasure but she was still pretty pissed. Of course I kept on I just hide it. If it's good for your well being then I say go for it. If your wife doesn't care or even better wants to join in form time to time then all the better for you.
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jim1954 said:
I love masturbating and my wife enjoys watching me and joining in. It is a regular part of our sex life.


That's wonderful.
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jackingdaily Novice Jackinchatter

58 posts since 2021-05-05
53 year old curious male from Arizona
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I Still do. I am right now
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Being Married is no reason to stop masturbating
However it could lead to divorce.. but at least then you would be free to masturbate again grin
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tx_stroker_mwm Amateur Jackinchatter

156 posts since 2021-05-22
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Always a masturbater whether dating back in the day or married now. Always will be. She knows I do it and I talk about it once in a while. She checks in once in a while if I need any lubes or creams. It's a good situation. I definitely don't tell her about the online activities here or on mycircle though haha.
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Wife and I have masturbated through out our 40+ yrs of marriage. We've done it together, alone, watching each other and doing each other..
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