does anyone else feel straight until they log on and then your desires change

No. Sorry, but I know what I want. My desires do not change. I know I am not 100% straight. But I also know I'm not bi (really do not like dealing with other guys for cock and I would prefer they were detachable). I know me!

Haa hell yea!! I get on line and get hard watching guys jack off. Love cum shots etc. Glad I'm not the only one!!

im straight/masculine when i log on-but my desire is to find another s/m guy thats way in the closet, single, that is a closet cd/sissy/lingerie lover. share our secrets. just him and i. ummmm so sexy- erotic!

I know the feeling!

I believe sexual desire happens along a range. Think of a line where one end is fully gay. People on that end have desire for only their same sex. On the other end are people who desire only the opposite sex, fully heterosexual. Along the line are all the various desires. One could argue maybe there are branches for trans, weird perversions and such.

Personally, I like women. I love to lick pussy and fuck pussy but...but, cock is interesting and attractive too. I'm not interested in romantic sex or a romantic relationship with a man but I have sucked cock and I do fantasize about it on occasion. Anal is out "top" or "bottom". I consider myself straight.

Anyway... my point is we are much more complex than simply homosexual, bi-sexual and heterosexual. DM's welcome if anyone wants to discuss more.

Likewise I'm not attracted to guys I meet irl but I do get off to gay and bi porn as well as straight. Depends what mood I'm in. I'm definitely curious about playing with another cock and enjoy the fantasy of that through watching it online.

I'm not attracted to men, but I love cock and cum. Love sex with guys. While I love women and think they are beautiful, being a married middle aged man with a small dick who's not rich doesn't leave me many options for women. But I'm a great cocksucker and I swallow every drop. I mostly masturbate to cock now. Even my wife asked me if I still liked women.

I love to watch vids of guys jerking. And I zero in when the cum starts to shoot.

I do it more and more often now days. I've become more interested in watching cocks cum in videos and love seeing them squirt. Love wearing panties and other lingerie while masturbating or chatting but have had no experiences.

Wilaubry - what you said is correct and well-established within sexual research communities, but it isn't common knowledge. Sexuality is a spectrum and few live at either of its polar opposites (100% gay or 100% straight).

An often overlooked but vital aspect of our sexuality is the distinction between Physical Attraction and Emotional Attachment. Consider male friends who get together for oral sex, but are married or otherwise romantically involved with women, and have no desire to have a boyfriend. No doubt women have similar secret female friends who serve a physical purpose, but they remain in love with their husband or boyfriend.

The reality is that physical desires are independent of emotional connection, and the degree to which they overlap is unique to each of us.

Well said. Much better than I did.

Been bisexual all my life. My first-time having sex was with a boy my age in my early teens. My first time with a girl I was 19 and it took her to be the aggressor. I am attacked to both sexes.

For years, when I masturbated to porn, I would start with pictures of women, move to straight sex, and then as my cock gets closer to orgasm, I gravitated to gay porn.

Now, I tend to look at straight and gay porn simultaneously.

But sexuality is a continuum, we are all somewhere on a scale between gay and straight.

agree there is no black and white just grey