I like to help bicurious men explore their sexuality. I'm thinking of making a website that focuses on that. If you are bicurious, what would help you? Guys to chat with while watching porn? Serious conversations about the right and wrong, how to come out, or just another man to talk with and here "I know brother, me too"

I have noticed that a lot of curious guys have genuine desire but it purely comes down to finding someone and then finding the opportunity to meet. Like me a lot are married men who want explore but finding the chance can be difficult.

Very accurate description. When I was exploring, I tried placing ads in Craigslist. It was easy to find a guy but I wasn't hip enough to realize that hooking up wasn't as important to making good friends first.

For me, it's the "finding someone" that's been difficult because I have ZERO interest in a stranger hookup.

I'm also very selective because I want to find an ongoing FWB, just one person, and build a friendship over a long time. Be actual friends. Most men are absolutely not interested in conversation.

Now I see why women have such a difficult time!

I wonder how many other similarly inexperienced like me want their first FWB to be a newbie.

My imagination runs wild with this scenario. My mind races at the thought of two men sharing & unleashing years of pent-up desires and nervous excitement you only truly experience once.

I fully expect to fumble through it all, and I don't have a high bar for the physical satisfaction. Most of all, I want to have a long term FWB to be able to laugh later about things that didn't go quite right, indulge each others' fantasies, and take turns embracing our masc/dom and more fem/sub sides equally without judgments.

That's been a tall order, but I'll keep searching.

I'm wondering if it is a problem of there not being that many guys around who are feeling the same. Or, is it a problem of a lack of places to communicate? Dating sites are usually pay things. I would imagine that would be out for many men. I am thinking of a chatroom, a live one, just for curious men and their friends.

I think an all around website for curious guys would be amazing. One with forums, PM's, a live chat, and more. One that could be added to as needed. And I think you are right, most married men aren't interested in setting up a profile on a dating site.

I can empathise with all the above comments. I was curious for many years and turned down many opportunities to meet with other guys that I'd only briefly met online.
I eventually found a guy online. We lived local to eachother, of similar ages, married with kids, and both in exactly the same situation - extremely curious, but too scared to take the intial plunge.
We chatted online for well over a year, swapped photos and shared a few stories until eventually one day, we were confident enough to meet up.
I invited him here one day when my wife was out. After an embarrassing start with two "virgins", neither knowing how to get started, we eventually undid eachothers flies and the rest came about quite naturally. We stripped eachother, wanked, sucked and swallowed, so not bad for a first date.

So in answer to the question, what would have helped make it easier would have been somewhere to chat openly, with no pressure, and you can see where the person is located and his age. The guy I met up with was the only one of several dozen who was not in a rush, not pushy, and happy to take it a nice steady pace, the same as me.

I'm married and have met and played with several men through locals groups such as the "Jacks" groups that are in many cities. There is also usually a "Sex Positive" group in most cities if you check meetup.com.

You can get to know people and develop friendships.