I totally missed the part in this 14 year old video where she actually proposed banning masturbation. I saw her and her organization encourage youths not to masturbate (which, mind you, I am not for but she is entitled to believe and do). But just because she asked you in her "pretty please" tone and presented what she believed was a decent argument (again, I disagree with her) doesn't mean you can't just laugh at the naievity of the idea and go have a nice wank anyway.

My point is, no conservative is telling you that you CAN'T masturbate. It's just that, 14 years ago, this one particular woman asked young adults to consider not to. If you disagree, ignore the PSA and jerk to your heart's delight. I'd kind of like to think that's what freedom of speech is all about.

It depends on a lot of things. The guy and his own personal technique. Which appendage he's using to perform the manipulation. He'll, even my current mood, horomone levels, etc. Make a difference. But, to be perfectly honest, as much as I enjoy clitoral stimulation, it's not what gets me off. I need something inside me. Call the gspot a myth if you want, but for me there's just that one spot at the top of the inside of my cunt that, with the right amount of pressure for a few moments, will give me a far better orgasm than any clitoral stimulation. Maybe I'm just strange.

I'm not terribly choosy so long as it's clean and neat. Shaved is nice, but with shaved balls soon follow stubbly balls. And stubbly balls are NOT nice. Unless my guy is REALLY on top of his maintenance, I'd just as soon he stay trimmed neatly.

I decided they could use a little decoration.


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I had an MMF once. Well, started to. I found out about fifteen minutes into it that one of the guys actually had a thing for me when he sort of lost his cool when he looked up from between my thighs to see me sucking the other guy's cock. He had to leave after that. I finished up with the other guy, though.

I've recently been offered another shot at it, however! Both an MMF and MFF. I'll be sure to let you know if either one goes through.

I played until recently, lol. I'm a giant dork, though.

I sleep naked, for sure. Have since I was a teenager. And I have a tendency to not dress immediately after my evening shower, to go about whatever I have to do in that evening in the buff. Lucky me, I have a girl-child, so I don't worry too terribly much about her seeing me naked.

I know this is a "For Him" post, but we all know I can never resist adding my two cents. And usually more.

With previous relationships/lovers I've generally been content to go and wipe up with tissue, etc. (I'm with j_bryon's wife; the tickle of the trickle of cum down my ass crack or thigh is terribly distracting when it comes to trying to sleep. And it minimizes "the wet spot" sometimes, which is, inevitably, always on my side of the bed.) However, with my current lover, it's straight to the shower. He's mildly hygiene obsessive (which I love, by the bye.) And a mutual shower usually provides a lovely wind down for us both, involving kissing, touching, and helping one another get clean. It's intimate and playful without the expectation of more sex. It's foreplay for the next time we see one another.