I also share these thoughts and feelings and two years ago, decided to act on them. I went online and chatted to a few guys and eventually chatted to a wonderful guy that suggested we meet up. We met initially for a lunch and then planned the time when we would meet up to stay over and get intimate.
I must be the luckiest man I know, as at the age of 50, I decided I wanted to explore my sexuality and my wife encouraged me to do so. It has been a milestone in my life. The dark clouds moved away for a while and the sun shone brightly. It is by far the best thing I've done since turning 50 and I had no idea what I was missing.
The thing is, it couldn't be just any guy, just as marrying wasn't just any girl. It had to be someone that I felt comfortable with and had good feelings about from the start. If you have these feelings, then don't deny them. If there are so many men out there the feel this way, we probably pass many during the day without realising it.
One thing I do know is that my wife is supportive in a way that other women might not be able to be. It's understandable, but then things can change. My wife has met my man and they get on very well, which I knew they would.
The important thing for me was to chat and get to know him and he in turn got to know me. It's something very special, hard to explain and many just wouldn't understand, but it just works. The ONLY fly in the ointment is that he lives with another man (yes they are a gay couple) and his partner forbids any contact. So, wonderful to have net someone with whom I can get naked an intimate, but the opportunities are irregular and weeks apart.
Wow, that's really hot! Just the guys standing with their cocks out does it for me anyway...agreed munch12 - especially the one in the white tank top. I can only imagine that looking bit not touching anyone else is incredibly arousing, especially if everyone else is masturbating. My idea of heaven!
Well, I must be in the minority here, so do let me know if anyone is in a similar position.
I came out as bi to my wife several years ago. I said I wanted to get intimate with a guy and she said fine. She even offered to photograph me for my profile on what is now a fairly inactive site. I've used one of the photos for my profile on here.
After meeting a guy, my wife suggested that she would like to meet him and since then we have met up as three for all sorts of stuff. And before you ask, NO this is NOT a threesome!! I'm lucky enough to enjoy sex with my wife AND my man. I stay away with him sometimes and my wife knows where I am and when it is. No secrets. I love sex with both and wouldn't go back to the way it was before. Very lucky I know, but I can't be married to the only woman who completely appreciates what I enjoy so much with another guy. Really?
