I used to report them but its a waste of time & abit cumbersome, opening the email, then clicking on the sender to report them & then deleting the message. Way easier just to delete any hello emails.

Been quite awhile since I've had a helping hands from a gal ./,''''

I've never shared with a gal friend that I'm really better at bating than fucking. Always wished I could... Is interesting to see how others here are able to share it with their partners. Seems so magical... to give a partner a wink or a nod that they're going to or wanting to masturbate. And partners could either watch, help or whatever, including mutual masturbation. But totally understanding our sexual needs.

55+ years of masturbating, I've been a daily bator for like ever. Well there were times over when I stopped for weeks or sometimes months, usually when I had a gal friend. As for what's normal, number of times a day, who knows.

These days at 67 my normal is once every morning & then sometimes a 2nd one later on in the day. Your 'normal' could be 3-4 times.

I've always had the issue of not getting erect for a fuck but fully boned for my bates. And most gals didn't seem to know what to do with my softy. Nor was I very open about it with them either. Would have been great if I could have shared with them my passion for masturbation and my softy problem. So that we could have shared a mutual bate session.

Anywhoo, I did have one dear gal friend who knew exactly what to do to fuck a softy cock. She got on top of me and set her slippery pussy lips right over the underside of my cock. Opening them as she lowered herself on to my cock. And then humped me until I came, omg it was such a beautiful way to get an orgasm. And to finally to have 'sex' with a gal to completion.

Hopefully it gave her pleasure as well, not sure if she came or not. I'm sure it gave her pleasure to please me or she wouldn't have bothered to take the needed steps to get me off. I came all over my pubes and tummy and she was nice enough to get up and go to the bathroom to get a warm washcloth to wipe the sperm off me. My little softy cock had exploded...

Now as an older bator I no longer get erect for my bates either but I still love to masturbate & do it daily. Presume I'll keep masturbating for as long as I get my orgasms.

Same here, as I've gotten older I've become a softy bator. It had been an issue for fucking but never for masturbating since my 20's. But then some 5-10 years back, I no longer got hard for my bates. I'm unsure the reason(s), health and/or meds for diabetes. I've never mentioned it to my doctor nor have I asked about ED meds like Viagra. I do miss getting erect but still enjoy masturbating and my wonderful orgasms.

Gosh haven't used my Magic Wand in ages but boy howdy I sure used to! I loved that vibe, kept it plugged in and under my bed for my morning bates. I have a cum cup attachment for mine, a soft vinyl tulip-shaped cup about 2 inches in length with slits in the sides that slips over the glans. OMG the orgasms can be so incredibly intense, it's amazing.

Yes, it is a bit noisy, perhaps newer models these days are quieter & they do make a rechargeable version in addition to the plug-in vibe. Mine's 20-30 years old. I loved the wand so much that I purchased a 2nd one at a yard sale.

One of these days I need to use it again.

Gosh been on here for years now, used to come here to use the chatroom. I even helped moderate for a time. And used to browse the jc website and use the link to connect to the chaturbate cams but the link has been broken for awhile now.

1 today. Just deleting them from now on rather than reporting them - which requires extra steps.

Can't imagine anyone not trying it at some point in their bating career. At least tasting it. I thought it was just kinda salty, blah. Pre too.

Nothing I really have a craving for, to taste or eat, after trying it. But if a gal said 'eat it' I'd have no problem doing so.

Omg yes! 55 years ago... I was about 12 and came the first time I masturbated.

Ha, and not to mention sperm makes a terrific glue. I had many a pages ruined, they were so stuck together it was impossible to pry them apart to 'read' again.

These days not so much really, sitting in front of the computer masturbating. But back when I used to bate in bed, in the bathroom sink or shower yes I did watch.

I've been sucked off to orgasm just once in my career and it was truly one of the most memorable orgasms I've ever had. Certainly in my top 10 orgasms.

The amazing gift was given to me by a friends wife... He'd invited me over for dinner and I knew he/they were considering getting divorced. He was already seeing some other gal but having a house & kids they were having to figure things out & still living together.

Anyways, I arrived for dinner and they were arguing in the driveway. Hmmm, at this point I presumed my dinner invite was about to be cancelled as he drove off. But his wife said dinners almost ready and to come in. So I did.

After dinner Cheryl put the kids to bed and we were sitting in the living room sipping a glass of wine. And she leaned over to mumble something. Honestly I really didn't hear what she said but I nodded in agreement. Next thing ya know she's unzipping me. To which I lift up and she slips my jeans down around my knees and puts my cock in her mouth. OMG.

And she really knew what she was doing as it wasn't long before I moan Cheryl I'm gonna cum. Thinking she'd let my cock plop out of her mouth but she never did. Oh it was such a beautiful orgasm.