Hello
I'm an older, clean, discrete curious male on the Sunshine Coast in QLD. Anyone out there looking for clean safe fun?

If you're interested email me at [email protected]

OK, sex with your partner satisfies your emotional needs as well as sexual needs but if it came down to one or the other, masturbating or partnered sex, I'd choose masturbation every time.

I've never had a woman, including my wife of more than 40 years, that's able to finesse and draw out sexual pleasure like I do with myself.

To me, masturbation is king.

Hello guys and thanks for your response.

I was hoping I wasn't the oldest wanker here simply because I hope to masturbate for many years to cum :-)

As mentioned, I'm married and just lately having a few erection issues for some reason. I went to the doctor recently and leveled with him about my ED and told him that I masturbate regularly, often with a softish cock. He gave me some sample 100mg Viagra to try to see if it helps. Haven't used it yet but looking forward to it.

One more thing, and I noticed Bill mentioned it, my orgasms seem much more intense now than they used to be. I don't know if it's just my imagination but gee it's just fantastic.

Anyone else notice this?

Hi Guys,
I'm 65 y.o. married with grandchildren and I'm still masturbating 3-4 times per week.

Who's the oldest jacker here on the forum and how often do you do it?

I think I posted this some time ago but I'll do it again here. It's a commentary of one of my edging sessions

I’m sitting here at my computer watching a video of a guy with a large cock masturbate on my regular porn site. I’m quite aroused but not fully erect. I slip my jeans and undies down and begin squeezing and slowly massaging my cock. I notice that my pre-cum has started so I rub it around the head of my penis for stimulation. After some time of watching and fondling my semi erect cock, my video man begins to moan and starts ejaculating all over his chest. “This is awesome” I think to myself. There’s nothing quite as arousing as watching another man masturbating to orgasm. “Whew... I am so aroused; will I go for it now or take my time?” I ask myself. I decide to have an extended session so I close the site and head for the bedroom.

Moments later I’ve stripped completely and I lie down on the bed. My first task is to get out my soft rubber cock ring and slip it on. It stretches the skin over my balls and pulls them forward under my cock and feels terrific. I lie on my back and gently squeeze my balls and slowly rub and stroke my cock until I get pre-cum oozing again. I continue stimulation of my cock and balls and rub the pre-cum lightly around the glans of my cock head. I turn my attention to the underside of my cock, tickling my frenulum with a single finger in a circular motion. Occasionally I pick up a fresh supply of pre-cum for lubrication whilst enjoying the sensation of my hand brushing my balls held tight by my rubber cock ring.

I place my thumb on the upper side of my cock and three fingers on the underside. Lightly, ever so lightly, I begin a stroking motion by moving the loose skin on my shaft up and down with a steady rhythm. As my arousal builds more blood is forced into my cock and it is now approaching full erection. I keep my excitement building with light stroking and fondling and as it builds, I find that my cock is hard and tight with blue veins standing out and winding their way around my shaft like a cylindrical roadmap.

Soon a very pleasant sensation spreads into my pelvic region and I feel my seminal fluid flow into my urethral bulb; it only takes a few seconds but the sensation is quite distinctive and is the first sign of an impending orgasm. I stop stroking for a second or two and cup my balls, tightly stretched and held up against the underside of my shaft by my cock ring. The feeling is sensational and I wipe a huge bead of pre-cum from the eye of my penis with the index finger of my left hand; I then slip it into my mouth. I adore the sensation and the taste of mild saltiness of my pre-cum. I release my balls and return to stroking. The sexual tension within my body is palpable, and I have to fight to control the urge to speed up and finish myself off.

By this stage around three minutes have passed and the build up towards orgasm intensifies. I move my hand up the shaft so that my thumb is placed over the corona where the swollen head of my cock stands proud from my shaft. Momentarily I return to tickling my frenulum with a single finger using my pre-cum as lubricant. Then, with two fingers on the underside and thumb on top I increase the pressure on my cock and start stroking at a more constant pace. As the feeling of impending orgasm spreads throughout my groin I thrust up and down with my pelvis in time with my stroking while fantasising about my cock being buried in some tight little pussy. My hand easily slides up and down the shaft now; it’s done it so many times before its almost second nature. Pre-cum flows out of my slit and using my index finger I smooth it around the glans making it shiny and spread it over my bulging head.

“God I’m getting closer now,” I think to myself. I’ll have to be careful not to take myself beyond the point of no return and into ejaculation; I want this to last a while yet. More stroking and I really feel my body now on the verge of orgasm. The familiar sensation of early stages of orgasm engulfs my body like slipping into a deep bath of hot pleasure. Soon my breathing becomes deeper and in shorter gasps and I’m totally focused on the exquisite sensations.... “Oh God, this is bliss” I think to myself. Then it starts; the pure pleasure of the emission phase and impending orgasm begins. I sense the tickling of the fluids moving towards my prostate. I feel my pelvic muscle (the so-called 'pee muscle') contract during the emission phase and I realise I’m almost there, ready to go. My head is swimming with euphoria as the orgasm begins and the intense pleasure seems to climb the shaft of my cock. I’m only a millisecond away from ejaculation, head spinning with pleasure.

“Fuck... stop!” I think to myself and remove my hand from my cock. I press down internally with my pelvic muscle to stop my ejaculation beginning. As I hold muscle tension, the pleasure associated with orgasm hangs for a few seconds before it slowly starts to subside. I look down and see my erect cock pulsing vigorously with contractions that would normally be expelling my semen. I lie here for a few moments basking in the euphoria and heightened state of arousal as my cock slowly stops twitching. About thirty seconds have gone by and I’m still in what I’d describe as a semi orgasmic plateau but my ejaculation has fully subsided.

A wonderful sense of anticipation engulfs me as I take hold of my cock once more. Slowly I begin stroking again, totally focused on my feelings and sensations. With just a few strokes this time I again sense the movement of the seminal fluids in my body and enter the emission phase once again. My pelvic muscle begins to contract and my body begins its second orgasm. “Oh yes... Here it is again... That feeling” I think to myself as my head swims with euphoria. My pleasure climbs quickly and just as my ejaculatory response is about to kick in, I stop all stimulation once again. Timing is critical at this point; one stroke too many and I’ll take myself over the edge and ejaculate.

I repeat this process a dozen times or more before allowing myself the reward of climax and ejaculation. During the session I remain suspended in a heightened state of arousal and sexual tension. It’s wonderful. During each emission phase, more and more fluid accumulates inside my prostate so that when I do decide to ejaculate, the force and the amount of semen can be enormous.

Stroking again now; “this time I’m going to let myself go” I decide; I desperately need release now, I feel the tension of my built up sperm seeking release. Then, for one last time, I feel my semen travelling from my prostate up the shaft. My free hand cradles my balls now as the pleasure takes off. “Nearly there. Oh yes.... And then....” I'm there, the world stops, time stops and all sensation is centred on my cock head. “Oh God I'm cumming. Oh yes. Mmmmmh. Oh yes. I'm cumming, I'M CUMMING, I'M CUMMING.......”

My breathing stops momentarily as my body tenses. All sensation is based in my cock and my engorged cockhead glistens with pre-cum. Sensation of touch is magnified to extreme proportions. I exhale and indescribable pleasure overcomes me as I ejaculate a small release of cum four inches or so onto my lower abdomen. But a quick flick of my wrist releases a second, more potent stream; this time a rope of cum shoots out and lands about eight inches up my belly. I raise my hips to aid the next release of cum. The sensation is fantastic as I watch my cock exploding and releasing its creamy white lava.

My breathing stops again and my next shot, the third, is the greatest. The explosive force spurts the load of this discharge the furthest. It has landed on my upper chest travelling almost two feet. Still stroking and with another contraction deep inside another huge rope of cum explodes out of the tiny slit in my cock flying through the air before it lands leaving a cum trail from its head. At this moment my cock is the centre of the universe.

Another spasm and another burst of cum, this time without as much force landing about six inches up my belly. My next squirt is much weaker and joins the pools of warm cum lying on my lower belly. My hand is still stroking up and down my shaft rolling over the ridge of my cock head. Fifteen to twenty seconds have passed but time seems to have stood still. Two or three more contractions as more semen seeps like lava from the head of a volcano.

Just as I think it’s all over another seizure hits me; my body tenses and the world freezes for a second or two. The next spasm is smaller and cum oozes out this time and runs down my cock head and over my fingers and thumb. Down the shaft it streams and starts a large cum pool at the base of my shaft. Oh so incredible. Another emission and another; no power now just warm viscous lava flowing down my cock and adding to the pool of creamy cum. All contractions are gone, my orgasm is over and I’m left with a wonderful sensation of contentment and satisfaction washing over my body. As I lie there recovering my senses, my erection begins to quickly subside and my cock lowers itself into the pool of cum at the base of my cock; almost as if by invitation. I look at the time and realise fourty minutes have passed since I began, and it seems like ten.

I love edging. Its taken practice and discipline to learn to take myself to the point of no return time and again. To back off just as my pleasure is at its maximum; when every fibre in my body is telling me to keep going and let my ejaculatory trigger kick in. To constantly stop all stimulation and allow my orgasm to subside isn’t easy. If I get it right though, the rewards are well worth it. I can experience the pleasure of multiple orgasms, the pleasure of heightened arousal and the wonderful tension inside my abdomen as my sperm builds up, ready to be released. I enjoy the large amounts of fluid that runs out of my penis. Early on it’s clear and sticky, the result of seminal fluid produced by my Cowper's glands. Later on, it can appear like egg white, as it pushes out accumulated sperm. I love the notion that I can experience extended pleasure and keep my erection for quite long periods. I love the fact that I don’t enter the usual refractory period until after I ejaculate.

Whilst the actual intensity of pleasure I experience at the moment of ejaculation is hard to describe. I still enjoy the journey, the teasing, the tension and time it takes to arrive. Then, when I finally allow myself to ejaculate, I feel as though I’ve somehow earned it; a true reward for discipline and patience.

Just wondering how many married ladies out there are fully aware and encourage their husband/partner to masturbate?

My wife and I rarely have regular sex now but she doesn't mind if I jerk myself off when we're in bed together occasionally. Sometimes she'll give me a hand as well and she almost always gets her vibrator out when I'm done.

There's something extremely erotic about having your partner watching you masturbate.

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Hi all
I just got my new HD webcam and I'd love to share it with someone over a good jerk.

I'm an older bloke and married so maybe it would be best suited for older blokes. I guess that's up to you.
Let me know if you're up for it and we'll exchange details.
MB

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Hi
I'm in my early 60's and married with 3 adult children.
It would be nice to meet someone around the same age that lives around Maroochydore that would like to masturbate together.

Send me an email if your interested in talking further.
Thank you

I have a question for all you expert masturbators out there; particularly those that have the ability to experience hands free orgasm. I’ll begin with an explanation though and I apologise about the long post.

I was a product of the 60’s Hippie and Love culture and like many youngsters experimented with a few mind altering substances. (Most of my friends would say that explains a lot about the way I am today. Lol J) Anyway, like many in those days I discovered the both the sensation and pleasure during sex were heightened after use so I often used to indulge a bit of weed prior to masturbating. The experience was.... well.... let’s say very nice.

Well that was then and this is now... some 30 years later and I don’t indulge the mind altering stuff anymore. About 6 months ago though, I was thinking about what it could be in the weed that heightened the experience so much. Without degree in chemistry I deduced that maybe it was the fact that I could focus on the sensations and the experience much more without distraction.

So, I set about an experiment one night in bed not long after that. I woke at about 2am feeling horny with half a hard-on and my wife was sound asleep so I decided to masturbate in bed and try to totally focus on what I was doing and what I was experiencing.
I worked away slowly, just lightly massaging and rubbing and staying completely focused on what I was feeling. After a time I began to feel the changes taking place prior to orgasm and I was amazed at the clarity I had. I bit like being able to clearly pick out individual musical instruments while listening to a symphony.

As I progressed the pleasure built and I was astonished at the strength of the feelings and the way the build up to orgasm seemed to be drawn out. When my orgasm finally arrived and I started to ejaculate, it seemed to last for ages with my semen squirting up onto my chest whereas it usually just oozes these days. It seemed that it was the strongest and most beautiful orgasm I’d had in many years and it seemed to go on and on.
Needless to say I was thrilled and felt that I’d really broken through with something. Taken my masturbation to another level maybe? What I found though, was that it didn’t always work. It tends to work brilliantly at night when I wake and maybe that’s because my mind is relatively free of the usual crap you deal with on a daily basis.

So I started to consider trying to take my masturbation to another level with hands free orgasm using the same principle... absolute concentration and focus on my sensations. I’ve experienced hands free orgasm without ejaculation a couple of times before and I’ve seen videos of guys doing it with ejaculation. My understanding has been that the pleasurable experience of orgasm is a function of the brain and is completely separate from ejaculation. So I began trying to achieve hands free orgasm in bed at night using a similar technique of focusing on the sensation and trying to elevate the arousal to the point of orgasm.

Well, I haven’t been able to achieve it yet but I seem to have got quite close on a couple of occasions. The technique I’m using is to try and induce an almost trance like state and at the same time I visualise that a beautiful young girl is stroking my cock. (remember I’m not touching my penis during this). I slightly clench my sphincter muscle and hold it for some time (I’ve had success with this before). I find that I begin to get waves of pleasure sweeping over me and with the visualisation the pleasure rises quite quickly. Unfortunately though, it reaches a point where I can’t seem to take it beyond. It’s a great experience and very pleasurable but I can’t induce an orgasm. Very frustrating! I think what happens then is the frustration takes over and I tend to lose concentration and I drop right back to where I started.

So what I would like to know is... how do all you guys that have hands free orgasms actually do it? What technique are you using and does it include prolonged concentration or meditation? There must be a secret to your success and I for one would be over the moon if someone could point me in the right direction.

Having said that, I am extremely happy with my progress and my orgasms now are far, far more satisfying and intense than they were.

I haven't told my wife about my occasional diversions because I think it might confuse things. My wife has always been most unadventurous sexually and other than intercourse, wasn't interested in anything at all.

Certainly in the early days of our marriage she allowed some things but it was obvious she wasn't enjoying them so I stopped trying or asking.

That has never stopped me from loving her, but because I needed more than she would accept, I occasionally slipped off the rails.

As mentioned when I started this thread, I have never felt guilty about it or felt that I had betrayed her in some way. I haven't adopted this viewpoint to appease my guilt at all. It's just what I think.

Who knows, if I confided in her she may well understand but on the off chance it might cause her grief, it's better kept secret.

It is encouraging though to find that quite a few other guys agree.

Ok then here’s a question for the married men out there in Masturbation Land. It’s a question I’ve asked myself many times and fortunately I’ve managed to come up with an answer that suits me. I’d really like to hear other points of view though.

I’m in my early 60’s and have been happily married for almost 40 years. We have 3 children and 5 grandchildren. I started masturbating when I was about 12 years of age (from memory) and have never stopped. Even when my wife and I were newlywed and fucking like rabbits I was masturbating most days. Overall, masturbation has been the most pleasurable and enjoyable sexual activity in my life.

So I’ll begin the question with an explanation. When I was a teenager I had quite a few friends that I masturbated with on a regular basis. Even when I had girlfriends, I maintained a small group of friends that I regularly masturbated with. Never once did I feel guilty about my male or female sexual experiences. Certainly there were young girls and later young women I had strong emotional attachments to (love maybe) but still I found great satisfaction in mutual masturbation with a few of my male friends. It’s strange really because my male partners were so much more open minded and ready to express themselves sexually than almost any of my female sexual partners.

I have had 4 wonderful experiences with other men during my married life, a number with women and quite a few with prostitutes over the years. Yet, I don’t believe for a minute I’ve been unfaithful to my wife. I believe that to be unfaithful to one’s partner, the relationship needs to be based on an emotional plane.

From a philosophical viewpoint, I have a lazais faire attitude to sexuality. I understand that many people see any sex act as the ultimate expression of love between two people and I understand that. But I have an almost hedonistic approach where if it feels good, just do it. None of my sexual encounters were based on an emotional attachment, simply a need for sexual relief if you like.

So there’s the dilemma; if you happen to find another male/female friend that wants to share a sexual experience with you; assuming it’s not based on an emotional attachment, is it wrong? Is it cheating?

Perhaps when I was younger, if my wife had told me about a brief sexual encounter she’d had, I’d have been hurt and angry. Now though, with a lot of experience under my belt, I’m sure I’d understand and not be resentful at all.

What do you think?

I've been married for almost 40 years and I've always masturbated, even in the early days when we were fucking daily. She has caught me many times over the years and in recent years with our sex life much slower, I occasionally jack-off in bed while she's reading or doing something else. She is completely understanding and often actually gives me encouragement when I get close to cumming.

I actually think she secretly enjoys me doing it and she usually ends up masturbating with her vibrator.

One day about 3 months ago I was writing a blog for bateworld.com which basically said that I prefer masturbating to sex and that I often video myself and jack while watching my videos. I typed it out and saved it as a draft in Outlook Express and forgot about it because I couldn't cut and paste into their blog page?. She went to the computer and there's little doubt she found it. She has never said a word about it.

I've been married for almost 40 years and I've always masturbated, even in the early days. My wife has caught me many times over the years and I occasionally jack-off in bed while she's reading or doing something else.

She doesn't seem to mind and it usually ends up with her getting her vibrator and masturbating too.