Hi all, gay masturbator in New York seeking local JO buds for in-person meet-ups. I like to kick back with some poppers and lube and edge to gay porn. Could be 30 minutes or 3 hours, depending on the mood. I'm in the Bronx and can host or travel within the city.

Damn your videos are fucking hot, Lube-Luva

Personally, I get off on the foreplay more than the stuff that comes after. Kissing, bodies pressed together, the anticipation of undressing each other, cocks rubbing together, hands grabbing and clutching and massaging all over. More exciting to me than sucking or fucking, though I might feel differently in a relationship.

I'd mostly leave it alone. Tell him that if he ever changes his mind the door is open, but then let it drop. He gave you a pretty definitive answer, so if you try to subtly maneuver him into a situation he's told you he's not interested in, you might look like a jerk who's not respecting his wishes, and then you might risk losing him as a friend altogether.

Haha, I didn't realize I've answered this poll twice. LOL

I enjoy knowing someones getting turned on while I stroke?

Yes

I enjoy hearing a bud work his dick?

Yes

I enjoy the noises he makes as he strokes?

Yes

I enjoy the sound of him cumming?

Oh Yes!

I like to cum with him?

Absolutely

I fantasize about the scene while we stroke?

Fantasize about the guy on the other end of the line.

I think of cock when we stroke or pussy or both?

Cock

Always looking for buds to play with?

Yes

I enjoy watching a bro work his dick?

Yes

I get off on doing this in public places?

No, never been much of an exhibitionist

I replied earlier but forgot to include my Skype info:

Wolf_Grin is my SN, same as on JackinChat. Feel free to add me if you like cock talk, moaning, dirty talk, edging. Just let me know when you add me that you're from JackinChat. If you find me online, I'm probably looking to get off, so feel free to say hi.

Not into talking about girls, for obvious reasons LOL.

Mic 2 Mic is one of my favorite ways to get off. I'm not comfortable camming, which is what most people seem to be interested in, but the excitement of edging together, talking dirty, moaning, and then hearing each other cum during mic chat is incredibly hot.

I'd like to be the center of a bukkake circle jerk and take several hot loads on my body. I've fantasized about that for a while now and would love to try it once. And if I like it more than once.

I love shooting a huge load. It's not something guys have too much control over apart from edging and abstaining to increase volume -- some people are shooters and some people just aren't -- but there's definitely a feeling that the volume and force of a cumshot is reflective of the intensity of physical pleasure, which is why it's such a turn-on for me to cum a huge load and to see guys cum huge loads.

Just curious how many of us, no matter how we classify ourselves, str8,gay,bi, like to hear and talk about jackin with a buddy?

Yes.

I enjoy knowing someone's getting turned on while I stroke?

Oh yes.

I enjoy hearing a bud work his dick?

Yes.

I enjoy the noises he makes as he strokes?

Yes, especially moaning and dirty talk.

I enjoy the sound of him cumming?

Absolutely. The sound of another guy when he gets off is one of the best parts.

I like to cum with him?

Yes, if possible.

I fantasize about the scene while we stroke?

As in a porn scene? Usually don't watch porn while chatting on mic. But sometimes I fantasize about the two of us fucking.

I think of cock when we stroke or pussy or both?

Cock.

Always looking for buds to play with?

Not always. I probably chat on mic 2-3 times per month.

I enjoy watching a bro work his dick?

Oh yes, but in person since I don't jerk off on cam.

I get off on doing this in public places?

Nope, not really an exhibitionist or thrill-seeker/risk-taker.

Sounds hot. I've met one bud through Jackinchat, but would love to meet some more.

I've tried this before, though not with the intention of measuring my girth. I don't think of myself as especially thick, but I was never able to fit my entire cock into a paper towel roll. So I guess, yay me!

I too use mineral oil, because I love the feel of baby oil but not the fragrance, so mineral oil works well, and since it's so cheap you you can be very liberal with it if you want a long slippery stroke session.

I've heard this problem referred a lot to sex-columnist Dan Savage. His advice is usually to DTMFA (dump the motherfucker already). And if she actually said, "It's not my responsibility to pleasure you," then I'd agree that you should DTMFA.

But Savage might add, if you love her and she isn't willing to meet your sexual needs, propose an open relationship. If sex is as unimportant as she seems to think it is, she shouldn't have any problem with you meeting those unimportant needs somewhere else. That way, you get the sex you want and she no longer has the pressure of having to pleasure you. It should be win-win.

But if she demands sexual exclusivity, you'd better believe it's her responsibility to pleasure you, and your responsibility to pleasure her. If she doesn't think there's a problem even after you've told her there is one, if she continues to casually disregard your pleasure as an important factor in your relationship, then yes, DTMFA.