Dude I live alone, now work from home. This guarentees that I can walk around naked all day if I want, I can get a workout in whenever it fits and I can masturbate anytime that I want, which means not while working or getting a workout in, so pretty much 16 hours a day could be devoted to pleasuring my cock.

So to the OP, it sounds like you and your wife are ok with your early cumming so cool. That said if you wanted to try to enjoy things for a bit longer there are treaments for this and I'd speak to your doc about which is right for you. Luckily you are already in the right place on this and other masturbation sites. Basically jack yourself slowly and as you get close to cumming stop before you cum, let the sensation calm a bit and then jack it slowly some more until you are close then stop again, rinse and repeat this process until you can clearly recognize your body's warning signs that you are about to cum. Once you can recognize when you are about to cum and you now have the ability to stop and control it, your next goal is to see if you can hold off cumming just a few seconds then minutes more each time. This entire technique of masturbation is called edging, learning to control yourself right up until the edge of cumming but only letting it cum when you want to. I love edging. The best part of this process is there is no downside, win win. If you are successful and can extend your time in a given session, you win and if you can,'t hold off and you cum...you still win because sense when has having an orgasm and shooting cum been defined as losing, lol. Worse case just clean up and keep working at it. Last, you can help yourself here by using good quality lube when you masturbate and edge and later on down the line, cock rings, which once your rockhard, restrict your cum from freely shooting. For now just concentrate on learning the warning signs and sensations, using good lube and lasting 5 secs longer before cumming each session.

The very first time it was wet dream so I just came in the bed, woke up wet and sticky and threw the sheets in the dirty clothes hamper. The first time I was awake i sat on the toilet reading the stories in one of my Dad's Playboy mags when it felt like my body seized and lots of fluid shot out of my cock and all over the magazine pages. Like many I thought that I'd broken it,lol. And like many I was right back at it, except when I grabbed the Playboy the "good pages" were stuck together now like glue, no way to cleanly separate them, I tried, lol. My Dad never got that edition back. I got into pillow humping and watching my cum shoot out so I took up laundry duty for the house for a while. After doing loads of laundry every time I came got old, I switched to stripping naked in the bathroom, lubing my cock, and standing in front of the medicine cabinet mirror where I watched myself jack it over the bathroom sink. I always came hard this way and shot up into the air...landing down into the sink. I then washed up like normal after using the toilet, washing all evidence down the drain. The "over the sink" cum clean up method really helped my masturbation frequency take off. All I had to do was hold off until I could escape to a bathroom to pleasure myself, all clean no evidence left behind. In later years, college etc, I'd use a wet wash cloth to clean up both the cum of I came on myself and the lube.

Ok I always stroke my cock fully naked. Apart from really liking how I look naked and being very comfortable in that state of undress, I love, love, love how my cock looks when it is fully hard and being stroked. I have to say that over the years several women have worked on it, i.e. sucked or stroked it and exclaimed "damn you have a pretty dick", lol.Surprised me each time and while I never needed their agreement that my cock looked good it was nice to have. Add to that I'm an exhibitionist and it goes without saying that I love watching myself jack in front of mirrors. No matter the size or placement of the mirror I will find a way to position myself so that I can get a good close view of me pleasuring my cock and each and every minute reaction in my body as the pleasure grows. Spent 2 hours, off and on yesterday sitting in an office chair pulled up close to a full length wall mirror, feet on the wall on either side of the mirror. From this position I could see not just how my cock stiffened but how my balls reacted when both slow and fast stroking. The bonus, that made me cum hard is that I moan and mutter gibberish about my cock while deep into it. I caught a glimpse of how I look moaning and muttering, cock well lubed, hard as concrete and balls full and hefty, all in my surgical steel cock ring. I could not take my eyes of myself, reveling in the site of watching myself moan as my cum shot out hard. I love working in front of mirrors.

Two different women in their 70s, both were a lot of fun and to my surprise no one had put in the work to help either of them cum more than once in a while. I made it a point to help them both cum hard 2x. Again wish that I could find another.

I love mature women.

Say great pics but I vacation at nude beaches and while newbies will pop a boner uncontrollably, hence newbies, regulars just relax and let it dangle. Now I love when its slow days at the beach, sparsely populated,I will of course slow stroke myself to a rock hard state and then let it get a nice tan too, but not every guy is walking around hard all day at the nude beach. Enjoy.

I love edging, once you get to know what your PNR feels like foe the day, i.e. recognize the sensations just before you shoot, you can really work it hard and enjoy things for hours. I'm on a beach vacation now and will be edging it vigourously, thoroughly and with dedication every chance I get.

Used to drive naked late at night, Friday and Saturday nights on deserted country and suburban roads. Really long edging sessions. I'd hold that edge until I got within a few blocks of my house and then I always had to pull into a deserted parking lot or side street , crank it like a wild monkey for a knee buckling, sweat covered blow out. The best part,I was still rock hard and tenting my loose gym shorts as I pulled into the driveway and got out of the car. The sensation of the nylon fabric rubbing on my hard sensitive, just shot cum cock, always threw me into overdrive and I almost always ran into the house, stripped and went at it hard on the back deck,naked under the moonlight for a second cumming. The neighbors always thought that I was so disciplined on weekend mornings with my car care routine, always hand washing interior and exterior. They never knew that it was because I left obvious cum on the steering wheel, console, drivers seat and floor, lol, no controlled release at all. Last, yes seeing my cum in the daylight often got me hard again, slowly and no hands, while taking care of the car. It was fun letting my semi rub all over the car, reaching over the hood to get hard to reach spots while waving at the neighbors out mowing or doing yard work.

Well, I've met people from here for sessions. As the OP said You will get ghosted. I fix the meeting place problem by grabbing a hotel room, that won't work for everyone though. The other issue is having compatible porn interests and being on the same page up front about the encounter. You don't want to know how often some has agreed to no touching and they get worked up and want to suck me. Anyway, just thought that I'd throw some ideas your way.

Always naked and well lubed

Never heard of the wipes, interesting. I always use lubricant when stroking it, always and with that and practice, I can keep complete control of when I cum and can, and do, edge for hours. So at least for me, the desensitizing wipes aren't in my future but edging it hard for hours is. Enjoy.

It's a good way to build stamina and control. Really useful so that you are good when a random hook-up drops in your lap. Safety first!

Dude, you're horny when you're horny, it really isn't more complicated than that. Lot's of random things can trigger an impending hard on or a desire to fuck or stroke it. It has nothing to do with age and has everythig to do with something you sensed, e.g. saw, heard, touched, tasted or smelled that triggered the memory or the reaction directly. It maybe as simple as remembering how good it felt to cum 10 minutes ago. Nothing to even give a second thought to. Just roll with it and enjoy.

Nope. I love my kinks. Never go anywhere without them.