If I had one I sure would and enjoy watching it done. There was a time when I was able to reach The Jewel of my own Nile...
"I think I will just stand in the light and let it rain down upon me..."
Always Keeping in touch!
Alistoria~

Well, my Dear one...most people I sense, give a massage of sensual natures to receive something in return. Maybe not in the first five minutes, but then they begin deverting their attention to their own physical reactions, away from the Yoni (woman) or Lingam (man). Sex is all about submission, releasing and trust...there are wonderful opportunities to experience new choices with this kind of touch sensuality. For those who have performing issues this can be a way to reset their usual patterns that are connected to disappointments. For those who do not it is a way to initiate a heightened level of anticipation. The main idea is to forget yourself for a moment and concentrate on the other, and releasing the busy noise in the head of what am I going to get from this. For a moment get in the moments of what can I do to please him or her. It is very intoxicating to submit to the other this way. The ego goes right out the door. Taking a break from wanting to control..."What can I do...to "How can I please the other?" can be very interesting for a change.
It's all good!
Alistoria~

Stagebear has answered well some of your questions...For the nipple piercings, I imagine they are pretty much the same for male and female in terms of sensual sensitivity... I would imagine the pain would be the same also. I equated it to a small serated spear piercing through my skin, LOL because it is. But Stagebear is also right...it only lasts for a brief second and then there is only sensitivity. The healing process is for some time and then after a couple of months, you don't notice it. It does take some time for it to heal internally. Cleanliness is a must! But......after all that, the sensation is amazing! You can choose different jewelry to your liking. I kept the nipple rings the same. But had my clit bars and balls increased. It took me a little bit of time to get used to them, but now they feel so good...Orally and during self stimulation. I don't at all regret having it done. It only intensifies the pleasure!!! They even have clit bars with little vibrators on the ends that you can switch on and off. They certainly bring a new joy to the definition of pleasure...
Alistoria~

Hello Firefly...
I have nipple and clit piercing's and love them. They were intensly painful getting them for a second, but I was prepared for that when I went for them...so I just considered them to be a right of passage in a ritual kind of way. But again, I just love mine!
Make sure that you get someone with a good rep and go in for a consultation before you choose your person to do it.
Enjoy...
Alistoria~

Dear Identity...
The woman and man, have many opportunities to understand the differences in their bodies and how they manifest them selves sensually and physically. Not being aware can cause confusion and indiffence or in relationship, separation. The "Waters" of the woman are a beautiful sacred essence, that is meant to be experienced and honored. With the woman submitting and releasing them to her mate, as an offering to be recieved in honor. It's not about being afraid to get the mattress wet. So therefore one doesn't release it. It is about trusting your mate to receive it well and in the spirit it was designed for. Our bodies have been created for this, male and female. Releasing is natural. If in her belief, it is speaking to her that it is bad, or she is going to get something wet, or she doesn't trust enough to release and submit to you completely, she is holding all of this wet energy in. An example might explain, a woman as young girl, may have had issues with bed wetting, and may have been ridiculed for it, made to feel that it was bad to make the bed wet. This can very easily be carried along into their interpretation of what is right and wrong with their sensualities, physically and emotionally. Actually, the waters are not made up of her urnine... it is a fluid, that I won't go into technically here, but urine can also be released into the waters...and it is sometimes difficult to sense which and from where it is actually cumming from. It doesn't really matter from where...What matters most is realizing that it is beautiful part of the female anatomy, and they are the flowing "Waters of the Woman". Because she is holding back the waters, she is not going to be able to release her orgasm...because it is part of her internal orgasm...Women have 3 different area's within them that can produce different variations of the releasing. Anally, vaginally and clitorially. One can easily release into the other. "How many ways can one release...let me count the way". Gushing and Squirting is the goal here for her to experience. "Squirting", takes some practice with the muscles. "Gushing" is a great way to begin.
But this would tell me that one is holding something more behind it, that they are also not releasing...and this lies within her belief system, that is brought to the relationship, that did not just start yesterday. Equipping yourself with Knowledge on this subject and Loving Encouragement will speak to her that you care very honestly about the enjoyment sensually, you want to share with her. Assuming she will just do it right eventually, may not cum before more disappointments make it more complicated. If it weren't confused by layers of negative interpretations, it could just happen naturally...but the question would be, what is, "What is keeping her from experiencing what she was truely designed to experience?" and "What is it that I need to learn about this so I can be the best possible mate to her I can be. Then at some point, she can return the favor to release the anxiety that this also is building in you. There are only two ways you can work through this...the one I just described, or become more and more frustrated, which will only intensify your separation from what you would like to experience with each other.
If she can experience this with her own self pleasure while she learns to feel these differencs...giving herself the joy of her own first orgasm would be a wonderful thing to return to you as her gift to you. Healing is a wonderful direction and experience that will deepen your intimacy with each other.
Enjoy the ride, it's not as scary as it looks and feels!
Alistoria~

There's nothing better at times...Oh there is, but this is certainly one of them!
Alistoria~

Well Eddy...I absolutely agree with you! It's easy to see who were the bullies in school that made fun of their own reflections of insecurities, they obviously brought with them to JC.
Alistoria~

Stop Angus...That put me right into a blush.
Alistoria~

Thanks Anna...Was starting to think that there weren't any around here!
mental/visual stimualtion is always good, isn't it...
Alistoria~

Is all of this necessary? Why would anyone new want to choose JC to join with this kind of hurtful posting. Isn't this the kind of stuff you went through in high school? This should be a place where people can come out and find understanding about where they are with their sexuality, not how they measure up to bully standards of a few insecure people. Maybe she or he is just trying to find their way like all of us have had to do at one time or another...Disappointing!
AnD this is my defense for anyone trying find their way here!
Alistoria~