GroaninG

... Thanks altho I did find it on the web. It's not mine but I thought it was cute so I'm "borrowing" it!

LingerinG

"She's got legs..." and she knows how to use 'em, I'm sure! She's a hottie!

So... what music turns you on?

I'm such the "nice girl" but OMG that "I wanna fuck you like an animal" song totally turns me on! I want to ask my husband to screw sometime to that song but sometimes he thinks I'm a bit pervish! A lot of that "hard" music makes me wet, like "Down with the Sickness." The first few beats of that song get me going and I could come by the time he makes that "Oh wah ah ah ah," sound! Disturbed, Rob Zombie and System of a Down- all masturbation-inducers for me. LOL.

Share the songs that make you all hot and bothered...

Thanks for the honest response! I was, of course, polite when I asked him if we can sometimes just keep it "us." He understood. I think it is hard for him to hold back, and I really don't mind as long as he realizes this is as much about me as it is him. "Jim" and I have never really ever had an "emotional" connection, and it must stay that way. Even asking him that kinda put a small crack in our unemotional foundation and I've noticed a slight change in him, not in a bad way, just different- like he took my "girly emotions" into consideration for once instead of just my arousal.

Yeah, it's weird.

I can totally imagine laying in bed with another woman and wanting to masturbate with her... even kiss her so I can understand the desire. Society has made that so... acceptable as a "turn on" that WW seems almost normal. MM still seems like... "Wait a second here," which is such a total double standard.

Hell- I think we should all just masturbate together to our little hearts' desires!

This is actually embarrassing for me. I was masturbating at a very young age, like before kindergarten. I just remember being told it was bad and I shouldn't do it, and I was SO young I had no idea that rubbing against the arm of the couch while watching cartoons (hey it felt good, ya know?) wasn't at all appropriate! So I'd say I was doing it even before I was five or so.

Just reading the title of your post excited me. When it comes to the thought of a man blowing his load in his pants I get very aroused. It is the whole, "I'm so excited I can't stand it," loss of control thing.

I've never just had an orgasm without trying to. I mean, I've gotten really really horny where all it took was a few discreet rubs or rocking my legs together to come, but it has never been spontaneous.

I was once chatting on-line with a man who was at work. He really wanted me (what can I say? ) and I made a comment about a "one thrust fuck," maybe letting him slip it in me one time only- and he got suddenly quiet. Later he admitted it turned him on so much he came in his pants, at work, and had to run to the bathroom to clean up before it soaked through his slacks.

I still think of that when I masturbate because it turned me on SO much!

*I had to edit this post because it was wayyy too specific*

Hi,

So I've noticed that it is a common occurrence for two guys to jack off together, and really I didn't realize so man guys do this together. I know it doesn't mean you are gay because you like to jack with another dude but I also don't quite understand it... if you wouldn't mind explaining it to me, and I'll explain why.

I have a chat friend (we'll call him Jim) who I've known for... wow about 15 years, only on-line. Through all my life changes and absences from being on-line I've always stayed connected with Jim. Jim makes me come faster than anyone I know, in real life or not.

Jim is sorta like a lover I've never met.

So my point- a while ago Jim admitted he has had some MM encounters in the past and thinks about them all the time.

It takes some getting used to... Jim seems to be a pussy-loving hard-core male through and through but when he's moaning in my ear on the phone he has made comments about this other man. I dunno- it doesn't bother me at all, I just don't GET it. There is such a stigma against "being gay" out there- and I have this total disconnect when I try to imagine a guy like Jim, who clearly is into chicks and has a long-term GF, and who would meet me in a hot second for some long-anticipated action... is so hot for cock too.

Now that he has shared this with me, and I am his one source for purging his sexual fantasies, he likes to discuss it a lot. Recently I told him I don't always like it- simply because I don't feel as special anymore! I want his arousal when we chat to be about us, not the "three" of us. Not all the time... sometimes a lady wants to here "Oh god I need to fuck YOU," not, "I want him."

So please- explain this to me. This MM thing. How many of you just like the pleasure? Or is it... more than that? Do you desire actual sex with another man? Are there emotions involved- like do you wanna kiss him too? Jim wants to take this guy's cock in his mouth and he really likes watching guys stroke on the web (we have a lot in common.)

I just need help understanding this. Explain away if you so choose.

Thanks.

Holy Cow Smoothy your post made me rather warm!!!

Um I used to masturbate on the train a lot but only once was able to bring it to a complete orgasm, although I will never forget that one time because since I had to move my legs really slowly with the seam of my pants pressed into my cunny (hence the screen name) the orgasm seriously lasted for like a minute, just washing over me. It was amazing and the only way I can duplicate it is if I do that "look ma no hands" kinda thing- and if I am on my own, in private, I don't have the self-control to keep my hands off myself when I finally get there!

This summer I was in my back yard which is fenced so it wasn't all that "in public" but it still felt really naughty. I was laying on my stomach in the yard on a blanket, reading a book. It was a smexy scene and I was getting rather wet. The sun was all nice and warm and I was so horny- I noticed the bumpy ground under me was perfect for kinda humping so I grabbed the ground through the blanket to kinda hold on and just humped against the ground until I came. Oh it was wonderful!!! And it made it extra naughty to me because I was outside.

I spend half my waking life in a constant state of arousal so I thank the Lord I was not born a man.

At work I can sit at my desk, cross my legs tightly and barely move, tiny itty bitty rocking movement, until I come. It is soooo fantastic! Hard to avoid panting or getting all flushed but woohoo is it fun!

Hm... I remember the good ole' days back in the 90's when I was in college and chatting was so brand new. The Internet was fairly new. I remember my friend had a sexy picture of Kevin Spacey on her dorm door (we both think he's hot... I know he's not into women but he's still so hot with those laugh lines and OMG but anyway) I asked her where she got the picture and she said, "The Internet." I asked, "What's the Internet?" and then an addiction began. LOL

My point, though, is how truly fun it was to mind-fuck someone through words only. NO cam... no voice. Just words, hot heavy naughty dirty fuck words. Those were the days. I used to hang in fun adult forum place... well I was pretty popular there I had some of the best orgasms going back and forth chatting with people, just working up my chat partner by explaining how I was masturbating myself... the sounds I made, how my juices tasted on my hands, how wet I was... what I was imagining doing to him. And when I read words like "stroking frantically now thinking of slipping inside you..." OMG I could come and come.

So- now... fast forward 15 years. There is NO chat. There is no imagination. It is all instant gratification. See pussy=ejaculating. Nope- that's not for me. I LOVE seeing cock on cam, I do... but it is the icing on the cake. I want to be aroused by the sexiest part of the human body first- the mind. I want to get to the point via chatting where if that man on the other end was across town I would drive Hell bent for leather to meet him and fuck his brains out. When I'm at that point the substitute for fucking would be to bust out the cam and finger-fuck myself while watching him, hearing him... and coming together.

If I can find a man willing to take his time and do that then maybe I'd use a cam. Sadly enough it's all "cam/mic?" and nothing more these days so I don't cam anymore.

And believe me- oh I used to! In my mind I can still remember how conditioned I was because when I would hear that little ringing noise from... oh what was it??? Netmeeting! That little ring tone today would make me cream my jeans instantly if I heard it. It meant something fun was right around the cyber corner.

So there is my long-winded explanation as to why I no longer cam.