My husband does often and I'm cool with it. He works some hideous hours sometimes and has a very stressful job. I'm afraid if he didn't, he'd explode. Definitely don't want him exploding that way!

The more wholesome response I can give is to say I've had to make a quick visit to see my husband at work. Especially daunting as he's a cop!

Off the second floor balcony.....

My husband would think I'd been altered by aliens if I even insinuated he should "cum in my vagina."

* what do you use as a lubricant?
Typically, saliva or nothing... sometimes a lotion or whatever's handy...try not to use anything too girly smelling!

* do you typically do it fully clothed, partially undressed (boobs out? no panties?), or nude?
Gosh...that's a toughie. Probably considering hand jobs are the spur of the moment thing, I'd have to say generally clothed in the beginning leading to partially undressed.... husband's all for breast fondling when he's getting a hand job, so there you go...

* do you do anything else besides stroke his dick (e.g., play with his balls)?
Definitely have to take care of his little friends... sometimes tease him by rubbing his thighs, stomach... throw in a little tongue for good measure.

* what do you do when he's about to cum, and what do you do with it?
If we need to be careful and not get it on clothing, generally take it into my mouth. If we're not in that situation, baby, just let it go... wherever it lands is fine with us.


And on the flip side: let's say the man in your life were to give you the equivalent of a hand job. What would you want him to do--and the more juicy details the better.[/quote]
Because I'm a freak, do it anywhere we're not supposed to do it! Well, not in church, but any place else is open game. Before we started driving SUVs, my favorite was to get off while driving. Now our vehicles are too big to reach across without doing acrobatics.

Underwater is cool too.

Is awake considered a position?

OMG - I think this is disgusting. 11 years old? Freaks the hell out of me.

Of course, if one is on life support. I'm just kidding - sorry!
I could never defend my position in court, but I do think men and women can be just friends. It's a lot to overcome the least bit of sexual attraction though. I guess it depends on maturity of both parties and just where you are in your life. I dunno.... I plead the Fifth.

God, it makes me hot when men quarrel over grammar, syntax, spelling, etc. If you didn't, I'd have no hope.

Adyard, I like my men breathing, somewhat intelligent, sexy as hell, funny, decent looking and with a fully functioning penis.

Yeah, um, if it got me out of "Plan B," don't think I wouldn't. Give me that Bostitch, baby!

NO, EDDY! STEP AWAY FROM THE MASCARA!
It's the eyeliner ... and the swagger ... and the, omg, I need to excuse myself for a moment........ahem. Now that's what I call, Captain Jackin'! (What's that commercial? Oh yeah, I need a little Captain in me!!!)

I guess great minds just think alike, eh? We need to start our own fem version of "What Star Gets You Hot"... Meow, Johnny Baby...

OooH - Calling in "not sick." Instead doing a day of girlie stuff - mani, pedi, facial (not "that" kind), massage.

On an ordinary day, snoozing in the tanning bed during lunch. Awwwwww.

Husband loves it. I'd rather have my nipples stapled, but you know, sometimes it takes a little compromise.