To answer what's best to use with a condom:

Use water-based intimate lubricants such as Astroglide, Tush Push Anal lube, or KY jelly only.

As noted here and on other sites, oil-based lubes like Crisco could damage the condom -- and I've seen it happen.

Two of these circle-jerkers are more into nuzzling than the other two...and one of these sporty guys turns out to be a spunk machine when he watches straight porn.

Buddy Davis, Dax Matthews, Max Cruz, Christian Sharp

For curious/bi/gay guys of a certain generation, pro pitcher Jim Palmer's Jockey underwear images were conveniently everywhere.

When did you first masturbate?
Age 12ish

How often do you masturbate?
Once a day

Age?
60

Dick size?
6"c

Do you use lube? If so what?
Usually just spit for wanking

Have you ever used toys like a fake vagina?
No

Have you ever used toys for your ass? Is so what did you use and do?
Bullet-shaped vibrator (by myself), 8" dildo (by myself and with partners)

How do you masturbate?
Sitting up in bed (usually)

Any other techniques used for example crawl the wall?
No

Have you ever eaten your own sperm?
Yes

Have you ever given yourself a self facial intentionally?
Only accidentally

Have you ever jerked off on cam or mic?
Yes to both

Do you still jerk off on cam or mic?
More mic than cam

Have you ever jerked off with people online? If so, did you show just your cock or full body nudity?
Full body only a few times, otherwise just showing cock and ass

Have you ever jerked off with someone in real life?
Yes

Do you have a wank buddy?
No

What do you do with your wank buddy?

Have you sucked someone in real life?
Yes

Have you had sex ? Guy or girl?
Guys

Have you wanked off in public?
If sex clubs and gay porn theaters count, then yes

Have you ever been to an establishment like a gay sauna? What did you do there?
Yes...Watched others while wanking, sucked, was sucked, fucked, was fucked, 3way, 4way, mutual jo, made out, showed off, various kinds of sex in a big group

Have you ever been part of group fun?
See above

Did you wank off while writing your answers to this survey
No

When I was a college student, I'd work up the courage to walk to the corner store and buy a Playgirl. Back at the apartment that I shared with a couple straight dudes, I'd then get myself "worked up" in a different way.

I guess this is partly a locker room brag, but the stories are true. I really do want to shout out to hot peeps I've met here on JackinChat. (No nicknames/names or other ID.)

A few Jchat stories

Recently, I was in a three-way chat in which I owned the ass of a 20-something "trainee". The third guy, who is 40-something, owned my ass and my trainee's butt. It was an online suck-and-fuckfest, basically. You two guys know who you are, and you are ridiculously scorching hot.

Another buddy -- straight and curious -- watched gay porn with me while he asked horny questions like, "What's it like to fuck a guy's ass?" I've enjoyed 40+ years of topping and bottoming, so I shared both of those experiences. He really was curious, and he and I came hard, simultaneously.

Since I started visiting Jchat in 2017, I've actually met in person with two different Jchat buds, both of them virgins to male/male sex beforehand. Oral sex and jo happened in both of those hotel meetups. I can't wait until it's safe to get together in person again.

How about you?

Str8, gay, bi, curious...Care to share a bit about some really randy fun you're had here on Jchat (without identifying your buds by name, etc.)?

Double Double is a gay porn classic. Travis is full of cum and truly eager to be fucked, and his two young, cocksuckin' buds are happy to oblige, multiple times and ways.

For guys who enjoy jacking off with buds -- or would like to -- here's Bel Gris and friend.

Once you've talked it over with your wife, try writing a DoubleList post. Even if you don't publish often, a post is a good way to clearly describe yourself, who you're looking for, and the rules you want to follow. I've experienced some good results with DoubleList, especially since I had some advance dialogue with the guys who replied.

For STD prevention, use condoms for oral and anal sex. Condoms are a good idea even if you and your buddy happen to be on PrEP, because PrEP is only for HIV prevention.

Especially since you'll be active with more than one person, get an STD panel done on some kind of regular basis -- keeping in mind that you'll just be getting to know your buddy.

You might want to wait until you and your buddy have been vaccinated against COVID, or at least know your COVID status and his status too. (I'm currently in waiting mode.)

Consider the hotel option, especially once the covid crisis starts to wane. An overnight rental wouldn't kill ya, and some hotels (including mainstream ones) do rent rooms for just a few hours:
https://www.dayuse.com/

Meet in a public/visible location before going to your ultimate destination. Arrange to meet up first in a park, or (if possible) a cafe, bar or hotel lobby. It's more secure, and also gives you a chance to make an agreement with your buddy on what you'd like to do and how you'd like to do it.

Like they say, "Don't let perfect be the enemy of good." ;-)

I don't qualify as bi or curious or new to men, but...what a cool thread you've started.

Yes, it is possible to just suck some dick and then be on your way. I have some friendly suggestions.

Try posting on doublelist.com, if you're in one of their geographical zones. Doing this allows you to be specific about what you want before you agree to meet up with someone.

Whether you do or don't identify as gay/bi, blowjobs qualify as sex. If you're going to try sucking dick, consider precautions against COVID and STDs. Here's a good one-sheet from the NYC Dept of Health:
Safer Sex and COVID-19